I have grown accustom to people telling me what to do, what to say and how to say it. I have "Middle child Syndrome", I also have a very thick skin and don't get my feeling hurt very often. Some would tell you I am not quick enough to realize I should have been insulted, but non the less, I am usually a happy and agreeable person.
But don't offend my family, don't make fun of them in rude terms. don't think I will back off if you try to put them down. I turn into a mother hen with her family of chicks.
You may not even know how large my family might be, so watch what you say and do around me.